neurodivergence

The October Slide is real

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I’ve been noticing the October slide into worse chronic health symptoms phenomenon for years (as reflected by countless posts alluding to it ever since I first started writing here) but, at last, I’m hearing tons of other people talking about, or maybe my ears are just pricked-up looking for more answers as ever, galling as it is to see a summer’s worth of steady health improvements set back like this once again. So what is it, why does it happen and what can be done to get through this heinously challenging time for some of us?

The fact I “seem” to be coping with the big event doesn’t mean that I really am!

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My hypermobile neurodivergent way of getting through an event might not be typical and will generally involve a lot of extra strategy and accommodations but it is just as valid as the next person's and, the more I own this, the less disappointed I am with myself or my circumstances. The world does not, in any large way, accommodate people with neurodivergent sensory responses to the environment or their not insubstantial neurological or physical differences, especially if hypermobile, therefore big events are seldom pitched to accommodate us, as a minority factor in the room. The very best I can do is have my own list of helpful methods and tools at hand to get me through these big events my way whenever they happen, with a view to minimising the worst kinds of after effects sufficiently enough for me to be able to hold on to the happy highlights instead of all the low points. Here are a few of my tips to myself in case they are of use to anyone else.

Music festivals and the like: The biggest win isn’t pushing through but getting real about what you can and can’t do

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As someone who is both autistic and who has disabilities, I've learned the hard way that the most important thing is to keep getting ever closer to living within my actual capacity (not some pipe dream based off "what I have done in the past" during all those years when I tended to try and normalise my behaviours), knowing my limitations, tailoring my life more and more to what feels good without all the compromise and stepping away from circumstances that have too high a toll, in terms of physical consequences and overstimulation from crowds and such, to be any good for me.

Missed signs of Ehlers Danlos during childhood

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With EDS and HSD Awareness Month upon us, it feels like a fitting time to share one or two posts written from my personal experience of having lived with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome all my life yet not always having known it because other people around me also didn’t have a clue. You could ask, well … Continue reading Missed signs of Ehlers Danlos during childhood

hEDS and “energy flu”

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I’ve been calling it “energy flu” for decades but what I mean by this is when the environment changes and I sense it through every tissue and fibre of my hypermobile body and it affects me…affects literally all of me, like I’ve walked in or out of a pressure chamber and nothing is quite normal whilst I adjust. Talking about hEDS in relation to an increased sensitivity to environmental shifts, how this impacts sensations, symptom load such as pain and dysautonomias, functional ability, executive function and more and things you could possibly consider as a better way of managing these episodes.

How long awaited hEDS diagnosis actually FEELS

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So as it turns out, I'm not lazy, not hypochondriac, not a malingerer, not attention seeking, not making it all up, not interfering where I shouldn't, not feeble (far from it), not "over-sensitive" (ditto), not making a hobby or a hyperfocus out of illness, not collecting labels, not depressed nor anxious (except when the circumstances themselves pushed me that way), not trying too little nor doing it all wrong, not lost in self-absorption, not avoiding being a grown-up...or alive. I have been dealing with a complex multi-systemic health condition with as much grace and determination as I could muster on a daily basis. Unpacking some of the emotions of receiving a long awaited diagnosis.

Finally, a diagnosis!

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Why is diagnosis just so darned important and cathartic when you are living with complex health; is it just because of finding the right treatment protocols (which is an important consideration since the advice for one chronic condition can be quite contrary to the advice for another, as I learned the hard way) or is there so much more to it than that?

When chronic fatigue meets an ADHD brain

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Just like it’s much harder for a hypermobile person to recover from an extended period of inactivity and lack of appropriate load-bearing (since I learned this the hard way, I have now heard it coorroberated by many reliable sources of hypermobility-meets-chronic fatigue information) I suspect it’s much harder for a neurodivergent person to recover from extended lack of cognitive load bearing. In fact, across both areas, my whole view of pacing has had to be changed since I was busy writing about it last year, with my source information taken from more neurotypical outlets at that time. So what’s important here is to "use it" in order not to "lose it"…yes…but to adapt the way we “use” and “move” to what we can genuinely cope with at this time, be it recumbent exercise or micro dosed cognitive excursions that we enjoy but don't sustain for too long at a time.

Reframing PEM and considering how it may be linked to delayed emotional and sensory processing in autism

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How could having more sensory information to process than the next person and delayed emotional processing have to do with post exertional malaise or delayed onset pain and what could any connection between them tell us about PEM so that we can reframe it in a more positive light?